Ibali yachukumisa ngaphandle i-ngamazwe siganeko
Russian Prime Umphathiswa Dmitry Medvedev sele characterized Hansen ke iintshukumo njenge"monstrous deed"Langaphandle Umphathiswa Sergey Lavrov ngokuba kuba kwaye onayo sexeshana ulwandiso bonke Russian adoptions kwi-United States ubizo Hansen ke iintshukumo"yokugqibela straw"Ngexesha, iintsapho ababe kwindawo ephakathi umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho nkqubo kunye elo lizwe kwi-limbo ngexesha labo elimfiliba - kwaye elimfiliba ka-babemsulwa abantwana - hanging kwi-ungqinelwano
Suffice ukuthi esi siganeko sele kwenziwe kodwa foster i-tenuous ubudlelwane phakathi komntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho amagosa kwi-Russia ne-United States.
Kukho wenziwe a steady nciphisa kwi-inani adoptions ukusuka Us ukusukela ngo- ngenxa inxalenye eziliqela phezulu inkangeleko kakubi iimeko involving adoptees abahlala kuyo U.S.
kwaye babekho ukuvuselelwa unxulumano kwi-Russian amagosa kuba stricter esweni abantwana yamkelwa libhunga U.S. Hansen, owaye a yeminyaka ubudala omnye umama kunye omnye biological unyana ngexesha, amayelenqe boy ukusuka Siberian orphanage ngo. Yena renamed umntwana Justin waza wazisa kuye ekhaya Tennessee ukuhlala kunye yakhe kwaye umama. Xa Hansen wawabuyisela boy njenge wayeyindoda handbag yena ayisasebenzi babefuna, lowo wakhutshwa kwi-Russian Imfundo kwaye Science Kubulungiseleli ngo umntu reportedly ihlawulwe $ (kwaye ngubani yena efunyenweyo kwi-Intanethi) ukuhlangabezana yakhe uhambo. Kufutshane nje emva boy ke kubuyela Russia, Hansen ke umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho-arhente, Ihlabathi Association for Abantwana Nabazali (WACAP), ezenziwe sesi sibini a lawsuit ngokuchasene yakhe ezama umntwana inkxaso kuba Artyom. Xa umntwana ubomi kwi-Russia, lowo ufumana i-i-american ummi kwaye phantsi Tennessee umthetho, Hansen ingu mbasa kuba unina.
Abanye ufuna end inkqubo ngokupheleleyo
Ngokunxulumene WACAP ke iwebhusayithi, Artyom, ngoku, okwangoku abahlala iqela ekhaya kwi-Moscow kuba abantwana iminyaka - 'abo bathe abancinane ithuba ekubeni yamkelwa.
'Abantwana ekhaya ingaba supervised yi-umfazi abo izenzo njengoko zabo titshala.
Ngomhla we- Meyi, Tennessee inkundla ruled ukuba Hansen kufuneka ahlawule $, kwi umntwana inkxaso arrears (iindleko Artem ke institutional kwaye zonyango care ukusukela yakhe kubuyela Saserashiya), $, wakhe umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho-arhente kwaye phantse $, kwi-attorneys' imirhumo.
Inkundla kanjalo ilungisiwe yakhe ukuhlawula $ ngenyanga umntwana inkxaso intlawulo de boy ngu- okanye eso sigqibo. Isixa-mali inikwe omiselwe usebenzisa i-mali iinkcukacha ezibonelelwe ngu-Hansen ngexesha i-boy ke umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho."Thina ingaba uvuma oku ruling ekugqibeleni inikezela abanye ubulungisa kuba oku boy"watsho WACP ke umongameli Lillian Thogersen kwi-ingxelo kwi-arhente ke kwiwebhusayithi."Umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho yi esemthethweni, lifelong ukuzinikela umntwana. Ukuthumela umntwana yedwa kwi-i-ngamazwe uhambo emva zabo zokuzalwa lizwe ayinguwo khetho kuba nawuphi na umzali"Hansen, ngubani ngoku ubomi kwi-California, akazange bonisa phezulu kuba na hearings kwaye wokugqibela kwinyanga ezenziwe sesi sibini yakhe kunye lawsuit kwi-California ngokuchasene Russian orphanage esichaza isirashiya Supreme Inkundla ungenako ukutshitshiswa umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho, kwaye ngenxa yaloo"saliwe i-defendant ke nako ukuyifumana kwakhona a isixa imali ukwimo umntwana inkxaso evela plaintiff"umyeni Wam mna yamkelwa intombi yethu, Madeline, ukususela China kwi. Thina isebenza kunye kakuhle-ezaziwayo umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho-arhente abantliziyo-nkqubo iqukiwe ekubeni udibanisa ababonisi base abazali kuzimasa inkqubo esisinyanzelo iindidi ukuxoxa (ad nauseam, ndandicinga ngomhla ixesha) enormity ka-nokuthatha umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho umntwana, ingakumbi umntwana ngomnye wolunye uhlanga ovela kwelinye ilizwe. Kwakukho amaxesha amaninzi mna bristled e ekubeni ukubhala kanti omnye essay malunga wam iingcinga kwi-subjects enxulumene le miba kwaye wabelane nabo iqela.
Kwakukho countless kuzo zonke iingingqi u kwi kunokwenzeka zonyango kwaye ukukhula kwakhe imiba ukuba ayikwazi kwenzeka.
Ngoko ke, ekhaya yolulela, thina kwizifundo a ifayile anikwe"ngempumelelo omdala adoptee"umfana umfazi abo bebe yamkelwa ukusuka Korea ngo usapho abahlala Connecticut, abo wathetha ka yokuba yena akazange ngenene vala abayo yamkelwa usapho ngenxa yokuba ekwenzile kodwa foster uxhulumaniso kuye Asian lemveli. Wayengomnye ucwangciso ukubuyela Korea kwaye bahlala apho. Emva koko, wonke umntu waba ke impressed ukuba yena waba wakha enjalo uphumelele ebomini kuba herself wonke ubani, oko kukuthi, ngaphandle kwam."Kutheni baye chonga umntu abo ayi vala kuye abazali?"Mna wailed ukuba umyeni wam ukuba ubusuku xa silifumene ekhaya,"Yintoni baya ukuzama ukwenza kuthi? Andiqondi nazi ukuba mna unako ukwenza oku!"Umyeni wam wathi,"Kulungile, kufuneka enze eso sigqibo ngoku. Akukho namnye wathi oku kwaba izakuba lula"Enkosi Thixo mna bakhetha yiya ozayo kunye umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho ngenxa yokuba, ukuba mna hadn khange, ndinqwenela uphose ngaphandle ngomhla likhulu amava ubomi bam. Ndiyabona ngoku ukuba zethu i-arhente waba ngokwenza ezona kunokwenzeka into kuba udibanisa ababonisi base ngabazali abantwana babeya owakho. Kuqala kwaye foremost, baba advocates kuba abantwana. Yabo inkqubo akazange kuba faint entliziyweni.
Embalwa couples wethu iqela yaye, enyanisweni, faka ngaphandle.
Yi-isiphelo ke, ukuba ufuna baba ngaloo icacile ukuba China, ngaba wayesazi kakuhle ngokupheleleyo ntoni baba ukufumana kulo. Ukujonga emva ngaloo amava ngoku, ndiya kuba ngonaphakade ngako oko kuba care bathabatha ekwenzeni ngokuqinisekileyo siya ndaqonda. Andikakwazi Hansen ezilungiselelwe herself owakho unyana wakhe, kodwa ndiyazazi ukuba zonke iintsapho ukuba ukuthatha kwi-Russia ezifunekayo ukundwendwela umntwana kwi-orphanages apho bahlala ezininzi phinda-phinda. Udibanisa ababonisi base adoptive abazali get ukubona kuqala isandla iimeko phantsi ezi abantwana bayaphila. Nkqu phantsi best of iimeko, ayinjalo pretty. Kubalulekile widely kwazeke ukuba baninzi abantwana kwi-Russian orphanages rhoqo kuba yesitalato kwaye ukukhula kwakhe ngemiba enxulumene fetal utywala syndrome. Ngemihla i-Imeyili axela ukuba Artyom waba biological unyana ka-i-alcoholic umama waza waziswa ukusuka yakhe xa wayeneminyaka emithandathu ngenxa yakhe addiction. Kule leta Hansen ithunyelwe nge boy, yena umtyholwa Russian amagosa ka-hayi ndizixelela kwayo inyaniso malunga boy ke mental state. Parenting - akukho mcimbi njani oko kwenzeka - yi ezimnqakathi yokholo.
Kwi-ngokukhetha ngamazwe umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho, udibanisa ababonisi base abazali, ubuncinane i-okkt ngamehlo libanzi vula ekuvumeleni baya futhi ke kufuneka ibandakanye ekubeni kakhulu ngakumbi imibuzo kwe-iimpendulo.
Pretty kakhulu yonke into ongaziwayo. Ukhathalelo ingcaphephe rhoqo kakuhle udibanisa ababonisi base abazali hayi rely kwi nokuba lonyango ingaba iingxelo wanikela de banako kuqinisekiswa nge-i-njalo umntwana emva kwi-United States- emva kokuba umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho. Ngo Hansen ke, umama wakhe ke owakhe admission wakhe nentombi wafuna iingcebiso ezivela psychologists xa boy ukuziphatha kwe waba i-mba kodwa zange kuhlangatyezwana nazo kunye omnye. Kwakutheni? Waye yena uqhagamshelane wakhe umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho-arhente ukucela uncedo? Umnxeba kum judgmental, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kwakungekho engcono okungokunye ukuphelisa esi umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho kunokuba omnye Hansen wabanyula. Hansen ke iintshukumo stoked uloyiko malunga ngamazwe umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho kwi omabini nge xesha xa kuthe eba ngaphezulu kwaye inzima ngakumbi na ukuthatha abantwana ezivela kwamanye amazwe. Ngosizi, le asiyiyo ngenxa zinganelanga abantwana abaya kufuneka amakhaya jikelele ehlabathini, kodwa ngokulula umcimbi ka-bureaucratic posturing. Kangangokuba, abangaphantsi kwaye abangaphantsi abantwana ingxowa-amakhaya abo ke desperately uncedo. Inyaniso kukuba uninzi amawaka-ngamazwe adoptions ukuba zenzeke rhoqo ngonyaka iziphumo ekudalweni ndonwabe, sithande iintsapho. Imibulelo Hansen ke act ka-desperation, ngu-hayi oko ihlabathi wabona kwaye ukuba ngokwenene a tragedy. Kungakhathaliseki yimalini Hansen ngu banyanzeleka ukuba ahlawule (kunye inevitable nezibheno, nokuba yena ngokuqinisekileyo uya omoya phezulu ngokwenza njalo kungathatha iminyaka ukusombulula) umonakalo ibisoloko isenziwa. Thabatha stereotypes malunga adopting 'yonakele' abantwana evela kwamanye amazwe zithe perpetuated ngomoya wakhe ignorance. Emva konke wathi kwaye kwenzeka, oko kuya $, ngonyaka kuthetha ukuba a motherless unyana abo baya kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukuchitha yakhe yonke lwabantwana abancinane ngendlela kwiziko ngaphandle ngonaphakade ukwazi ngumzali ke, uthando? Hansen wanga umoya phezulu yokubhala a khangela, kodwa ke yakhe olahliweyo unyana othe wahlawula ixabiso liphezulu bonke.
